The power of introverts | Susan Cain

When I was nine years old, I went off to summer camp
for the first time. And my mother packed me a suitcase
full of books, which to me seemed like
a perfectly natural thing to do. Because in my family,
reading was the primary group activity. And this might sound antisocial to you, but for us it was really just
a different way of being social. You have the animal warmth of your family
sitting right next to you, but you are also free to go
roaming around the adventureland inside your own mind. And I had this idea that camp was going to be
just like this, but better. (Laughter) I had a vision of 10 girls
sitting in a cabin cozily reading books
in their matching nightgowns. (Laughter) Camp was more like a keg party
without any alcohol. And on the very first day, our counselor gathered us all together and she taught us a cheer
that she said we would be doing every day for the rest of the summer
to instill camp spirit. And it went like this: “R-O-W-D-I-E, that’s the way we spell rowdie. Rowdie, rowdie, let’s get rowdie.” (Laughter) Yeah. So I couldn’t figure out
for the life of me why we were supposed to be so rowdy, or why we had to spell
this word incorrectly. (Laughter) But I recited a cheer. I recited
a cheer along with everybody else. I did my best. And I just waited for the time
that I could go off and read my books. But the first time that I took
my book out of my suitcase, the coolest girl in the bunk came up to me and she asked me, “Why
are you being so mellow?” — mellow, of course,
being the exact opposite of R-O-W-D-I-E. And then the second time I tried it, the counselor came up to me
with a concerned expression on her face and she repeated the point
about camp spirit and said we should all work very hard
to be outgoing. And so I put my books away, back in their suitcase, and I put them under my bed, and there they stayed
for the rest of the summer. And I felt kind of guilty about this. I felt as if the books needed me somehow, and they were calling out to me
and I was forsaking them. But I did forsake them
and I didn’t open that suitcase again until I was back home with my family
at the end of the summer. Now, I tell you this story
about summer camp. I could have told you
50 others just like it — all the times that I got the message that somehow my quiet
and introverted style of being was not necessarily the right way to go, that I should be trying to pass
as more of an extrovert. And I always sensed deep down
that this was wrong and that introverts were
pretty excellent just as they were. But for years I denied this intuition, and so I became a Wall Street
lawyer, of all things, instead of the writer
that I had always longed to be — partly because I needed to prove to myself
that I could be bold and assertive too. And I was always going off to crowded bars when I really would have preferred
to just have a nice dinner with friends. And I made these
self-negating choices so reflexively, that I wasn’t even aware
that I was making them. Now this is what many introverts do, and it’s our loss for sure, but it is also our colleagues’ loss and our communities’ loss. And at the risk of sounding grandiose,
it is the world’s loss. Because when it comes
to creativity and to leadership, we need introverts doing
what they do best. A third to a half of the population
are introverts — a third to a half. So that’s one out of every two
or three people you know. So even if you’re an extrovert yourself, I’m talking about your coworkers and your spouses and your children and the person sitting
next to you right now — all of them subject to this bias that is pretty deep
and real in our society. We all internalize it
from a very early age without even having a language
for what we’re doing. Now, to see the bias clearly, you need to understand
what introversion is. It’s different from being shy. Shyness is about fear of social judgment. Introversion is more about, how do you respond to stimulation, including social stimulation. So extroverts really crave
large amounts of stimulation, whereas introverts feel
at their most alive and their most switched-on
and their most capable when they’re in quieter,
more low-key environments. Not all the time —
these things aren’t absolute — but a lot of the time. So the key then to maximizing our talents is for us all to put ourselves in the zone of stimulation
that is right for us. But now here’s where the bias comes in. Our most important institutions, our schools and our workplaces, they are designed mostly for extroverts and for extroverts’ need
for lots of stimulation. And also we have
this belief system right now that I call the new groupthink, which holds that all creativity
and all productivity comes from a very oddly gregarious place. So if you picture the typical
classroom nowadays: When I was going to school,
we sat in rows. We sat in rows of desks like this, and we did most of our work
pretty autonomously. But nowadays, your typical classroom
has pods of desks — four or five or six or seven kids
all facing each other. And kids are working
in countless group assignments. Even in subjects like math
and creative writing, which you think would depend
on solo flights of thought, kids are now expected to act
as committee members. And for the kids who prefer to go off
by themselves or just to work alone, those kids are seen as outliers often or, worse, as problem cases. And the vast majority of teachers reports believing that
the ideal student is an extrovert as opposed to an introvert, even though introverts
actually get better grades and are more knowledgeable, according to research. (Laughter) Okay, same thing is true
in our workplaces. Now, most of us work in open plan offices, without walls, where we are subject to the constant
noise and gaze of our coworkers. And when it comes to leadership, introverts are routinely passed over
for leadership positions, even though introverts
tend to be very careful, much less likely to take outsize risks — which is something
we might all favor nowadays. And interesting research
by Adam Grant at the Wharton School has found that introverted leaders often deliver better outcomes
than extroverts do, because when they are managing
proactive employees, they’re much more likely to let
those employees run with their ideas, whereas an extrovert
can, quite unwittingly, get so excited about things that they’re putting
their own stamp on things, and other people’s ideas might not
as easily then bubble up to the surface. Now in fact, some of our transformative
leaders in history have been introverts. I’ll give you some examples. Eleanor Roosevelt, Rosa Parks, Gandhi — all these people described themselves
as quiet and soft-spoken and even shy. And they all took the spotlight, even though every bone in their bodies
was telling them not to. And this turns out to have
a special power all its own, because people could feel
that these leaders were at the helm not because they enjoyed directing others and not out of the pleasure
of being looked at; they were there
because they had no choice, because they were driven to do
what they thought was right. Now I think at this point
it’s important for me to say that I actually love extroverts. I always like to say some of my best
friends are extroverts, including my beloved husband. And we all fall
at different points, of course, along the introvert/extrovert spectrum. Even Carl Jung, the psychologist
who first popularized these terms, said that there’s no such thing
as a pure introvert or a pure extrovert. He said that such a man
would be in a lunatic asylum, if he existed at all. And some people fall smack in the middle
of the introvert/extrovert spectrum, and we call these people ambiverts. And I often think that they have
the best of all worlds. But many of us do recognize
ourselves as one type or the other. And what I’m saying is that culturally,
we need a much better balance. We need more of a yin and yang
between these two types. This is especially important when it comes to creativity
and to productivity, because when psychologists look
at the lives of the most creative people, what they find are people who are very good
at exchanging ideas and advancing ideas, but who also have a serious
streak of introversion in them. And this is because solitude is a crucial ingredient
often to creativity. So Darwin, he took long walks alone in the woods and emphatically turned down
dinner-party invitations. Theodor Geisel, better known as Dr. Seuss, he dreamed up many
of his amazing creations in a lonely bell tower office that he had in the back of his house
in La Jolla, California. And he was actually afraid to meet
the young children who read his books for fear that they were expecting him
this kind of jolly Santa Claus-like figure and would be disappointed
with his more reserved persona. Steve Wozniak invented
the first Apple computer sitting alone in his cubicle
in Hewlett-Packard where he was working at the time. And he says that he never would have
become such an expert in the first place had he not been too introverted
to leave the house when he was growing up. Now, of course, this does not mean that we should
all stop collaborating — and case in point, is Steve Wozniak
famously coming together with Steve Jobs to start Apple Computer — but it does mean that solitude matters and that for some people
it is the air that they breathe. And in fact, we have known for centuries
about the transcendent power of solitude. It’s only recently that
we’ve strangely begun to forget it. If you look at most
of the world’s major religions, you will find seekers — Moses, Jesus, Buddha, Muhammad — seekers who are going off by themselves
alone to the wilderness, where they then have profound
epiphanies and revelations that they then bring back
to the rest of the community. So, no wilderness, no revelations. This is no surprise, though, if you look at the insights
of contemporary psychology. It turns out that we can’t
even be in a group of people without instinctively mirroring,
mimicking their opinions. Even about seemingly
personal and visceral things like who you’re attracted to, you will start aping the beliefs
of the people around you without even realizing
that that’s what you’re doing. And groups famously follow the opinions of the most dominant
or charismatic person in the room, even though there’s zero correlation between being the best talker
and having the best ideas — I mean zero. So — (Laughter) You might be following the person
with the best ideas, but you might not. And do you really want
to leave it up to chance? Much better for everybody
to go off by themselves, generate their own ideas freed from the distortions
of group dynamics, and then come together as a team to talk them through
in a well-managed environment and take it from there. Now if all this is true, then why are we getting it so wrong? Why are we setting up our schools
this way, and our workplaces? And why are we making
these introverts feel so guilty about wanting to just go off
by themselves some of the time? One answer lies deep
in our cultural history. Western societies, and in particular the U.S., have always favored the man of action
over the “man” of contemplation. But in America’s early days, we lived in what historians
call a culture of character, where we still,
at that point, valued people for their inner selves
and their moral rectitude. And if you look at the self-help
books from this era, they all had titles with things like “Character, the Grandest
Thing in the World.” And they featured role models
like Abraham Lincoln, who was praised for being
modest and unassuming. Ralph Waldo Emerson called him “A man who does not
offend by superiority.” But then we hit the 20th century, and we entered a new culture that historians call
the culture of personality. What happened is we had evolved
an agricultural economy to a world of big business. And so suddenly people are moving
from small towns to the cities. And instead of working alongside people
they’ve known all their lives, now they are having to prove themselves
in a crowd of strangers. So, quite understandably, qualities like magnetism and charisma
suddenly come to seem really important. And sure enough, the self-help books
change to meet these new needs and they start to have names like “How to Win Friends
and Influence People.” And they feature as their role models
really great salesmen. So that’s the world we’re living in today. That’s our cultural inheritance. Now none of this is to say
that social skills are unimportant, and I’m also not calling
for the abolishing of teamwork at all. The same religions who send their sages
off to lonely mountain tops also teach us love and trust. And the problems that we are facing today in fields like science and in economics are so vast and so complex that we are going to need armies
of people coming together to solve them working together. But I am saying that the more freedom
that we give introverts to be themselves, the more likely that they are to come up with their own unique
solutions to these problems. So now I’d like to share with you
what’s in my suitcase today. Guess what? Books. I have a suitcase full of books. Here’s Margaret Atwood, “Cat’s Eye.” Here’s a novel by Milan Kundera. And here’s “The Guide for the Perplexed”
by Maimonides. But these are not exactly my books. I brought these books with me because they were written
by my grandfather’s favorite authors. My grandfather was a rabbi and he was a widower who lived alone in a small
apartment in Brooklyn that was my favorite place
in the world when I was growing up, partly because it was filled with
his very gentle, very courtly presence and partly because
it was filled with books. I mean literally every table,
every chair in this apartment had yielded its original function to now serve as a surface
for swaying stacks of books. Just like the rest of my family, my grandfather’s favorite thing to do
in the whole world was to read. But he also loved his congregation, and you could feel this love
in the sermons that he gave every week for the 62 years
that he was a rabbi. He would takes the fruits
of each week’s reading and he would weave these intricate tapestries
of ancient and humanist thought. And people would come from all over
to hear him speak. But here’s the thing about my grandfather. Underneath this ceremonial role, he was really modest
and really introverted — so much so that when
he delivered these sermons, he had trouble making eye contact with the very same congregation
that he had been speaking to for 62 years. And even away from the podium, when you called him to say hello, he would often end
the conversation prematurely for fear that he was taking up
too much of your time. But when he died at the age of 94, the police had to close down
the streets of his neighborhood to accommodate the crowd of people
who came out to mourn him. And so these days I try to learn
from my grandfather’s example in my own way. So I just published a book
about introversion, and it took me about seven years to write. And for me, that seven years
was like total bliss, because I was reading, I was writing, I was thinking, I was researching. It was my version of my grandfather’s hours
of the day alone in his library. But now all of a sudden
my job is very different, and my job is to be
out here talking about it, talking about introversion. (Laughter) And that’s a lot harder for me, because as honored as I am
to be here with all of you right now, this is not my natural milieu. So I prepared for moments
like these as best I could. I spent the last year
practicing public speaking every chance I could get. And I call this my “year
of speaking dangerously.” (Laughter) And that actually helped a lot. But I’ll tell you, what helps even more is my sense, my belief, my hope
that when it comes to our attitudes to introversion and to quiet
and to solitude, we truly are poised on the brink
on dramatic change. I mean, we are. And so I am going to leave you now with three calls for action
for those who share this vision. Number one: Stop the madness for constant group work. Just stop it. (Laughter) Thank you. (Applause) And I want to be clear
about what I’m saying, because I deeply believe our offices should be encouraging casual, chatty
cafe-style types of interactions — you know, the kind
where people come together and serendipitously have
an exchange of ideas. That is great. It’s great for introverts
and it’s great for extroverts. But we need much more privacy
and much more freedom and much more autonomy at work. School, same thing. We need to be teaching kids
to work together, for sure, but we also need to be teaching them
how to work on their own. This is especially important
for extroverted children too. They need to work on their own because that is where deep thought
comes from in part. Okay, number two: Go to the wilderness. Be like Buddha, have your own revelations. I’m not saying that we all have to now go off and build
our own cabins in the woods and never talk to each other again, but I am saying that we could
all stand to unplug and get inside our own heads
a little more often. Number three: Take a good look
at what’s inside your own suitcase and why you put it there. So extroverts, maybe your suitcases
are also full of books. Or maybe they’re full of champagne glasses
or skydiving equipment. Whatever it is, I hope you take
these things out every chance you get and grace us with your energy
and your joy. But introverts, you being you, you probably have the impulse
to guard very carefully what’s inside your own suitcase. And that’s okay. But occasionally, just occasionally, I hope you will open up your suitcases
for other people to see, because the world needs you and it
needs the things you carry. So I wish you the best
of all possible journeys and the courage to speak softly. Thank you very much. (Applause) Thank you. Thank you. (Applause)

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  • Honestly i don't how I suddenly find this but I was crying wondering why extrovert say all these hurtful things and believe being extrovert is the only way to live. Like if you're not extrovert then thats mean you're have mental problems or are just arrogant… My cousins needs to see this… Even then I believe they won't get the point… Since they like it so everyone should too 😒

  • Number one:stop the madness of constant team work.
    Best said

  • My bag is full of books ❤️💖♥️

  • It baffles me that growing up when my schools (elementary, middle school, high school) held meet the teacher nights, it never failed that my teachers would describe me as the perfect student. They said I had superb grades, caused no trouble, helped other students, answered questions, some would say I was the best student they had ever had. Despite being the best in their eyes, they would always say "but she doesn't talk a lot, is she quiet at home?" That notion alone pushed me to be more outgoing but I'm truly seeing that the outgoing people are usually the worst of the crowd yet they are seen as praise-worthy just because they dare to speak out loud. I don't understand the stigma behind quiet kids being seen as a problem. When being left to it, they do some incredible things.

  • Well, I’m introverted AND shy because I have social anxiety, so…

  • "Extroverts are like pop ups"

  • When introverts gather together, its not a group it's a coallision.

  • Like & comment if you are introvert. What country are you from?

  • Idk. But she sounds like Phoebeee ❤😍❤😍❤

  • As an introvert, I do need more alone time than most other people, but seriously sometimes I do want to interact with people (here I'm referring to extroverts), it's just that they think I'm too quiet and not fun enough to be around, which tbh is false, according to my other introvert friends.

    And it's funny how in this city I live in, kids are encouraged to be quiet and incredibly obedient at a young age, but as we proceed to adolescence, we're expected to suddenly speak up. And not being able to speak in front of a large group of people is seen as weaker and more 'useless'.

  • She sounds like Lisa Kudrow

  • I personally see that when teachers do group works its a way to make less work when they assign big projects. So I understand that, is way to much work . But the majority of times my teachers let me do some projects alone if there like 4 groups of 5 because it's just one more group even if the group is one student

  • Me

  • This is fye🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • Um am shy, introvert but yet extrovert with ppl i really like

  • Feeling social anxiety just from leaving this comment.

  • I've never seen the correlation of village life vs city life and the impact it has on introverts. It makes sense especially considering the competitive nature that's borne out of the need to succeed…let me think about that in a quiet place for a while 😉

  • When my son was young, he always hated going to camp. Now he hates college(he shares a room) says he has no privacy. When he’s home he comes out of his room 1 or 2 times a day.

  • being an introverts does not necessarily about reading books alone, away from people. i am an introverts but i love outside world, when i went outside i learnt a lot. still, i don't feel comfortable in a loud crowded place, don't like being around new people. when i'm among friends with a conversation my mouth never runs trough the conversation but my mind, they might think i don't enjoy being around them, but i really did, note that i'm not completely passive troughout the conversation or an argument i spent a lot of time just to laugh and listening, but when i do talk, i talk straight on point. which why they call me blak blakan which means blunty guy. so most of the time i had so much in my mind but never feels that i need to express it trough my words, i'd keep it to myself, but when somethings worth to say pops out then without hesitate.

  • Oh my goodness!! She spoke into my heart!! 🙏🏻🙌🏻

  • I shed some tears while watching dayum

  • damn listen to her my body was full of goosebumps

  • It's a label introvert-extrovert, gay-straight white black doesn't matter. At the very core of our existence, we are all humans. due to the labeling and categorizing of ourselves has caused a great divide in humanity. Until such labeling it stopped or overlooks we will continue to be a divided species.

  • her voice with out looking she t kinda sounds like lisa kudrow.


  • Some people always told me to change. Because im not like them. Like to chit chat and laughing for nothing. Now im realize im differents and special. Thanks God😀.

  • Piękny wykład Susan

  • I feel that the best types of introverts are those that come with humor.. because as they (we) may not like to speak and express very much, when they (we) do, it comes with gold.

    my classmate: why r u so quiet?
    me: because I'm not noisy
    my classmate: goes in deep thought to question about the meaning of the universe

  • The best ideas often don't get recognized because extroverts rush things too much and do not take time to contemplate on ideas

  • I had a boss who was not supportive of me being an introvert. She constantly told me I needed to speak up more in meetings even though I felt more comfortable observing and processing. She also told me she didn't think I was an introvert because I was social and friendly. Being genuinely interested in people and a good networker, doesn't mean I'm not an introvert. It was tough working in that environment!

  • Nice to find out I'm not a weirdo or outcast. Even though it never bothered me to be treated differently in school, but it was rough being black and an introvert. The biggest disappointment is not being able to develop on an introvert level in school. Now at my age it would be nice to have a career platform best suited for introverted minded people.

  • Introverts like to boost their own egos.

  • I am an introvert. I can totally relate to this video.

  • Only an Introvert can sense the discomfort she must have felt delivering this amazing Ted talk .. Amazing

  • I feel at home here

  • As an introvert sometimes i wish ,there is zombie apocalypse soon and i can survive alone with my survival skill that i improved when im alone in my backyard home without other extrovert help,,i sick of this world when i want to open my self and talking to those extrovert yeah they saw me like im an alien from other planet/weird and don't care about me and the irony was they ask people like me more open and being socialize but when i tried they rejected me and gossip and don't care about me ..

  • Can i be an introvert but still be shy or have social anxiety at the same time?

  • For me during group discussions and I’m paired with another introvert I don’t really know I stay silent and all teachers assume I’m ill or something and ask me if I was ok

  • I read your book . It was so good . All my life I was told something was wrong with me. I never thought something was wrong with me but I never understood what was the problem. Being an introvert is awesome I just never fully appreciated it . Thank you.

  • So good to see Introverted Public Speaker standing out for all introverts. Cheers

  • Tears coming from my eyes after seeing the standing ovation she got.♥️

  • A beautiful talk that adeptly summarizes an enriching book.

  • Don't even get me started on the frustrations of being in a group & seeing the most outspoken person lead the project while completely ignoring some great ideas simply because in a group situation extroverts dominate, even when they are not the best person for the job.

  • Yeah I’m not shy, and I hate when people call me shy. I’m just “to myself” a lot. I can still work in a group and participate. And I’m very talkative and charismatic when I find a topic that I love to talk about and when I’m hanging out with friends. But I NEED my alone time. I love just sitting down alone and reading or having coffee. I’m more in my head and soft spoken, but I don’t see anything wrong with that lol.

  • Yikes, people think being introverted is a good thing.

  • Some people see us introverts as weird just because we don't act like extroverted people 🤔😅

  • im an introvert

  • I’m INFP, what about you?


  • Actually I'd say schools are bad for extroverts too. They're constantly told to just shut up and keep quiet and not socialize when the teachers are lecturing.

  • Remins me of Phoebe

  • sh talks just like Phoebe

  • I assume that all loud and noisy people are stupid….

  • Me after read the title; I got powers?

  • Is it just me or she reminds you of phoebe buffay too?

  • As an introvert I get extremely annoyed when extroverts constantly projects their needs for for constant being around people on to me and want to "save" from my self-imposed "loneliness", they keep telling me how dangerous feeling lonely is, and don't listen when I say "I am not feeling lonely, I am choosing and craving my alone time", they completely don't understand what being introvert is, and keep telling me that I am not one because I have social skills at all.

  • I want to hug you. 💜 (or I can silently wave & smile in your general direction of that's what you prefer lol)

  • She looks like phoebe buffay frm friends

  • I really want to send this to my teacher 🙁

  • I am not basically an introvert and not an extrovert too. I just want to stay away from crowds and noisy places. I like to have meaningful conversations with people and like to enjoy with genuine people.

  • I am so grateful to u…I felt u were representing me😘😘😘

  • I'm an introvert and I've always took a lot of benefits from this personality trait. It made me discover my strengths and weaknesses

  • I get panic attack when I start speaking to a stranger.

  • 100% of all introverts prefer alone time with their hand and not with another human. True fact

  • Love her book ❤️

  • Ma'am, you are genius.
    Just followed you on LinkedIn.
    Would love to learn more from you.

  • 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Know more than you say,
    Speak less than you think.

  • Doesn't she look very similar to lisa cudrow from the friends serial?

  • Excellent 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • She has a voice just like Lisa Kudrow's (Phoebe's)

  • Hay fellow introverts, I need some advice? I used alcohol to become more outgoing, but I cant drink anymore, so I never go out anymore. What can I do that will enable me to enjoy parties without alcohol? And dont say cocaine 😉

  • What about the psychological studies that show introverts who act more extroverted on purpose get happier? I'm an introvert, but I struggle with thinking it's not always right.

  • i come back here every once in a while and just revel in the brilliance of this talk.

  • A lot of people think they are introverted when actually they have social Anxiety – i was one of them. Check for it first.

  • Now I know, why I hate do a group project in school. I thought I hate human. Or maybe I do.

  • I still remember, my school syllabus before had a rank of learning which is, the worst thing I ever think because to take my rank higher in certain subjects, I need to do groups project which is Im letting go the rank and not doing the groups project because I know it's meaningless even tho my teacher dissapointed with me because she said I'm a clever but I didn't want a higher rank in the subject. Then as I suspected, the next year after that, the project of this whole bullsht ranking thing was brought down. I don't care whatsoever, I'm not gonna do something I don't like.

  • When I was a boy at school sometimes a colleague asked me: "Why are you so silent?". Recently my 10 years daughter asked the same: "Dad, why are you so silent?"
    Today I think I found some balance between respecting my way of being and making people around me understand that I also respect them.

  • if you close your eyes you can hear Pheobe speaking

  • I want to know how introverts should act in our works. I want to build a good relationship with my coworkers and customers, but I feel a little bit nervous when I see them at the first time. I’m sometimes afraid if I offend them somehow, because my communication style is not so much friendly as extroverts do.

  • Damn. If I were an extrovert I might've had a chance to avoid death by starvation.

  • Funny how no one in the comments seems to have noticed she sounds like Phoebe

  • At least most introverts don't find it necessary to parade in front of idiots for a TEDX talk.

  • I was working while listening to this video (not watching) and thought it was Gwyneth Paltrow at first.

  • As an introvert, I really enjoy my own company. Not that I don't enjoy a quiet chat with a good friend or interesting company but I think extroverts don't understand that it is possible to be supremely entertained by one's own company.

  • Well am not against these kinda people or the manner in which they appear because then am arguing a fact which will make me a fool but I hope am right by saying the world doesn't exist in books and it's only a very small fraction of it do no matter how relative it is. Anyway I wish I had an introvert girlfriend so to appreciate their life style much more.

  • Thank you for this video. It is pleasing to know that there are other introverts out there like me.

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  • Protesting group work as well. It isn't that fun worrying about others more than you worry about the project, and it's just stressful.

    and i don't know these people, man..

  • Well…the final sounds more like Jung….

  • She sounds exactly like Phoebe from friends! <3

  • I am an introvert and i can remember being aware that i was from a very young age. And it was only because the people around me made it that way. Its quite surreal as a young person having all around you telling you or implying there is something wrong with you when you know your perfectly fine. I used to come to the conclusion that i was the normal one and they were all mad. The beauty i find in being introverted is that for the most part the people i am closest to chose to want to get to know me. Which in turn allowed me to get to know them. These are the few out of 100 that actually understand introverted people.

  • I am an introvert but so blessed to have friends and family who understand my need to be alone most of the times.

  • Such an introvert I don't even like to comment on anything online!

  • I am an introvert and i procastinate.. The worst combination!

  • Gandhi was in favour of Hitler.
    Don’t forget that.

  • Not gonna lie this was pretty hard for me to watch as an introvert.

  • As an introvert child in my primary school days, i really freaking hate the groups school works the most, the first is the one where the teacher asks everyone to group up into 2 or more to do works, i think it was just soo stupid, how could a freaking introvert find groups? Im always left out and the teacher has to intervine and just squish me into a random group that would just talk to themselves about random things and wouldn't be able to do work at all that day, yup, that "DAY" they would schedule an off school meeting to work on everything in someone's house, of course im left out of it because i don't know them not to mention where they live nor would i want to, next week they'd pass their work that i did not contributed in any way in and get some random grades that i am absolutely not happy with.

    The second type is where the teacher decides on the groupings randomly, you're lucky if there's some you get along with in your group but most of the time i don't, because im an introvert, in the end i do all the work by my self, hand it over the next week then everyone else gets good grades that they don't deserve.

    I just think that group school works are annoyance, not even necessary.

  • She's so damn Cute!!!

  • I am a 12 year old introvert and I hate how in school we are constantly forced to work in groups where people hardly ever get to hear my ideas, as I am a very quiet person. Every quarter, I'd get excited to see my report card, but then be so utterly disappointed that every single teacher gave me a bad grade in participation. Nobody in my life has ever made me feel good about being an introvert, so seeing all these comments made me cry a little, seeing the amount of people that have the same problem I do, and I just wish people could understand that we aren't the ones who need to change for society, society needs to change for introverts. We need to feel accepted in this world, and just remember that there is nothing wrong with silence.

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